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Occasionally, whether because I'm visiting family or I've taken a lover or become the victim of some improbable adventure that necessitates my borrowing a stranger's shower, through subtle acts of piracy, intrigue, or their consent, I find myself allowed the use of someone else's toiletries. I always enjoy this a great deal. It's like finding an alchemists's notes: you don't necessarily have a bloody clue what it means, but you get a certain sense of their technical habits, of choices made in metaphor, chemical, metal, and scent. And finding, in this mess of fascinating ingredients, something that would work for you as well, some piece of yourself in them, is a puzzle, an exercise in identity, in becoming, in this small thing only, a reflection.

I just learned that my sister's fiance, whom I like a great deal, is the son of a gentlemen who crushes rocks in a perfume and cosmetics factory. He breaks the earth to bits in order to give us colour, scent, and exotic powders, and renders women, and I hope men, and any other manner of creature, beautiful, not through accidents of biology or luck, but through skill and art. I, of course, also dismantle the natural world for a living, but I deal only in small, aquatic souls and in keeping people alive and fed. He wields his hammer for beauty, and I cannot help but feel that his is the more noble profession.
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While shopping with my friends John and Bernie, John managed to find this amazing old pipe, dark wood and bone, with a bowl covered by a little silver lid on a hinge. I held it in my hand and pondered things, longing for wildly thrashed violin strings and the contents of a Persian slipper. Before the purchase was made, Bernie explained to John the importance of the pipe: it couldn't be an understated thing. It was the one allowed element of flash for a gentleman because, and here my aforementioned love affair with colonialism rose up like a blush and I interjected, "It was your last remaining luxury." I said it in a voice not my own, a dandy prophet, and then promptly fainted. I woke up in another stall in the antique bazaar on a two-hundred year old yellow sofa which did not, alas, match my tie, and facing a remarkable old phonograph to which I proposed marriage immediately.

I've been considering this for some time: small luxuries, a bit of civilization one can carry forth into a stupid world, and hence, a fetish.

Finn sent me this collection of notes on perfume, and it nearly killed me, it was so good. Perfume, I hate to admit, is not a subject on which I'm particularly knowledgeable. I know what I like to wear, I'm even a touch fussy about it, but I lack the words to adequately discuss it. So this is, to me, an exoticism, another language entirely. I haven't the slightest clue what it means when it gets to specifics, but it sounds magnificent. There was an early entry on this topic exactly, which, I hope no one minds, I'll quote in its entirety here. )

Meredith told me of a friend who always carried good chopsticks with her, and almost never ate with anything else. What a charming insistence upon one's own tastes! As for myself, I'm on the lookout for an appropriate tin or some such thing in which I can carry emergency rations of good tea. Some ply spirits with tobacco; the ones with which I converse, I find, make slightly different demands upon my hospitality.

What, if I may ask, are your little indulgences, then? What do you need on your transcontinental excursions, or whenever you step out of your house? Have you ever heard of any other good ones? Whatever their origin, I'd love to hear of them.

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